A new episode of "The 90 Second Executive Coach!"
Whether you call it Integrity or an Honor Code or Personal Standards or something else, knowing your unshakable values is essential to the power of your leadership and will also define your leadership style.
This video introduces the concept of getting in touch with and intentionally practicing these values without exception.
Make no mistake, this is not an easy practice. Many of you reading this may be feeling puzzled because it is 'obvious' what standards you live by. Others may feel intimidated by the idea of defining and holding firm to an honor code. Perhaps some of you have gone through this process and are smiling at the memories and the true leadership maturity it brought you.
The good news is that there are structured and step-by-step ways to do this, which don't fit into a 90 second coaching clip. Almost every one of the members in the Mosley Institute for Leadership (and the EMI executive coaching programs that preceded the Institute) step through this process sooner or later. They are the ones smiling that knowing smile right now!
It may also surprise you that a personal honor code is unshakable but not unchangeable. It's not a "one and done." It changes incrementally as you change - as you take on more as a leader and as you learn to vanquish the "integrity vampires" one by one.
At first your honor code may be focused on some important next steps for your professional growth and career, at which point you'll want to identify the most common or troubling ways that the vampires sneak up on you.
And then in time it may grow to be more aspirational as you gain mastery and wisdom in your leadership and begin to see more subtle or complex vampires at work in your life. You'll gain confidence to focus on patterns that you see arising.
Check out the video and let us know what you think!
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This video is a new excerpt from a session recorded for Empowering Women in Industry 2020 that has not previously been available to the public.
I've been invited by Empowering Women in Industry to speak in person at their event this year, and if you'd like to join us in October (in New Orleans or online), scroll down to the travel calendar for links.
* New Orleans was known for thousands of years as Bulbancha (Choctaw for "place of many tongues") and was an indigenous trading hub. Erin Mosley, Inc. calls this place home now - and we continue to learn more about all the peoples, cultures, and events that have happened here.
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